The internal contradiction for American minorities is always that of assimilation versus identity. Real assimilation, the melting pot that does indeed cook European ethnic minorities into homogenous Americans, is not within the grasp of racial minorities, yet something near enough to it exists to appeal to the occasional Clarence Thomas. By contrast, the gay minority crystallizes out of the melting pot. No one should be surprised, especially when the way seems difficult and more especially in the face of an unexpected tragedy like AIDS, that more than a few voices would be raised from within the gay community itself, urging the disintegration of gay identity—just to let go and relax back into the melting pot as Velveeta chunks relax into queso dip in the microwave.
Frank Browning is one of those voices. His is a particularly accessible voice, for it is not lost in the usual deconstructionist gibberish which cloaks most such suggestions. Browning puts the question rather clearly: "Do gay people exist?" This is not to be mistaken for the obviously foolish questions of whether homosexuality exists or of whether there are not people who prefer homosexual relations. Rather it is whether anything substantial exists or ought to exist in gay identity.
This is a question much easier to contemplate in the relative safety of New York City, San Francisco, or Seattle, than in Dallas, El Paso, or Houston—not to mention Durham, or Biloxi or Cobb County, Georgia.
Browning's method of exploring this question is through accounts of his raising the example of the Sambians to a variety of his nominally gay friends and associates. The Sambians are one pseudonymous people of New Guinea among whom all males are required to participate in homosexual activities at the age of initiation. There are other peoples of New Guinea who require other forms of male homosexuality, and of course there are very numerous cultures in which some homosexuality is expected—but not actually required—of everyone, at one age or another. The Sambians, however, seem to have some special significance to Browning. While the symbolism and context of the Sambian ritual is very rich, the salient point, to Browning, is that the Sambian boys do not become gay, or homosexual, or identified as such by their homosexual couplings—indeed, they can only become "regular guys" by participating in them.